Izzit my fault or hers?

on 16th June 2005, time: 4 something afternoon, an accident happened...just when i wanna drive home from TARC....a car coming out from TARC very slowly and almost stop while I was driving my car at the main road...but, suddenly crash!! the car i mentioned just now crashed on left side of my car...oh my...then, i stopped my car at the roadside as what my friend told me to do so...two friends in my car...a girl came down and slammed her own car's door...very frustated n believed that she's right n i'm wrong...the girl came along to my car n ask me to pay 4 her car (her car's front bumper was slipped in her own car's on the left front tyre) ....how bout my car? both doors on the left side were destroyed by scars n "kemek ke dalam sedikit dengan catnya terkeluar" and also my alarm could not function because of that....what the...........!!!! supposed i ask her to pay 4 my car!!! i called my aunt coz my dad was in meeting that time...my aunt talked to the girl...later the girl called her dad...at last we didn't report n decided to repair our car by our own....while waiting for that girl's car bumper to get off from the tyre....my friends n i waited...for almost 1 hour..that's crazy n totally wasting our time...i don't know why suddenly water flow down my eyes.....i easily cry 1 though...can't control my emotion....my friends calm me down...........then, i talked to the girl n ask her to let us off!!! one of my friend argued with her n the girl said f*** in cantonise (t**).......I was like what the....!!! why suddenly the word came out from that girl...geramnya!!! the solution: both of us wrote each others' name, contact no. and car reg. no. At last, i drove off 1st...my family members keep calling n asking if everything is ok...thought of keeping secret but my aunt told everything to them already...too bad, too late....nvm...it's all over dy...i will always be careful while driving from now on....wouldn't want to meet the same car n driver again..that's sucks!!! Anyway, my car is ok now, just not good in looking now..~sigh~